If you’re an avid follower of this amazing site, you would have observed that we do a lot of follow-up articles on just about as many topics and subject areas as there are out there (dating, marriage, health… etc), and the reason for this is simple — so you’re equipped with adequate learning information— because obviously, there’s no way we could ever exhaust the information on any given subject in just one post, hence, the need for follow ups.
Now, with that said, today we’re taking another look at men who dump women, and the reasons for their action. Why would someone who once professed love for his woman suddenly grow tired of her, and become uninterested in their relationship? There are 6 reasons why I think this happens, and this post shall expose them to you. Please read on…
Notice the keyword there, ‘chronic’? No man would dump you because you told him a lie just once, heck, we all are guilty of lying at one point of our lives or another. However, everything has its limits; even lying. When you make lying your habit, that is when danger looms. I mean, you can be excused for lying once probably because you had to, but when it happens more frequently, there can’t be any reasonable excuse. Your man begins to see you as an untrustworthy person, and as someone who doesn’t care enough for him to at least be honest with him. For this, he can grow tired of the relationship, and suddenly begin to lose all the affection he once had for you, and believe me, if he finds a more honest woman, he’ll quickly jump ship!
2. HE REALIZED YOU’RE MORE ABOUT HIS MONEY
When as a woman, all you do is ask your man for money for everything always (not talking about married people), rather than encourage him to save and invest, you give the impression that you do not care about his wellbeing, but instead, you’re only in his life to milk him dry. No man wants a woman like this in his life; certainly not for the long- term. If he realizes you’re going to be a parasite on his finances, chances are he’ll quit the relationship.
3. YOU’RE PROUD AND ARROGANT
Pride and arrogance isn’t good for a marriage or relationship. Men naturally like to be in charge; we like to be the authority in our relationships, so the moment we see a woman trying to threaten that supposed order of things, we react drastically. No man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t listen when he talks, or disrespects him in any way, no! As much as we love absolutely respect you, you must accord us our deserved respect.
4. YOU STOPPED MAKING AN EFFORT
It is typically normal for most people to be all sweet and romantic both before they get into a relationship with you, and in the early months of the relationship, and then, as time goes on they go from romantic to unromantic. No more ‘I love you’, sweet texts, notes, etc. Some even stop looking as good as they once did. You’ll agree with me that this can be disappointing. Most men see this as enough reason to leave a relationship.
If your sense of hygiene is below ‘acceptable’ to any man, there’s no way he’ll stick around for very long. Men care about your general cleanliness; from your mouth to your hair, your clothing, even your privates. You must keep them clean to keep your man, unless you’re dating someone like you.
6. YOU DON’T INSPIRE AND MOTIVATE HIM TO BE BETTER
Some people go into a relationship in need of motivation, inspiration, and support; unless you’re able to offer them that, they may grow uninterested in you. And again, some women are just depressing. Rather than support their partner, and encourage him to pursue his dreams and aspirations, they discourage him, and make him seem inadequate. No man wants to be around you if you’re like this.
Harsh as those reasons may have sounded, they’re real, and have cost many Malawian women their relationships. If you’ve found yourself defaulting in any of the above ways, it’s time to be better!
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