If he isn’t good enough for you today, he probably would never be good enough for you so why stick with him?
Every woman deserves the best and it’s time we stop sticking with less, wasting our time and care on men who are not just good enough for us.
Below are 9 signs he isn’t good enough for you
1. HIS FRIENDS ALWAYS COME FIRST:
If you mean the world to him, his friends won’t always come first 95% of the time; you should come first before his friends. I am not suggesting he leaves his friends for you (that isn’t right) but he has to make you his priority if he really loves you.
2. HE NEVER MAKES AN EFFORT TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK:
You know your boyfriend isn’t good enough for you if he never bothers to make the relationship work. If it’s always you making compromises to make it work, then you should know he isn’t good enough for you.
3. HE ONLY SEES YOU WHEN HE WANTS TO:
If it’s a problem seeing your man when you want to see him, then he isn’t good enough for you. Why be in a relationship where you only get to see your man only when he feels like seeing you (and also only when he wants s*x)? If he only sees you when he wants to and you can’t see him when you want to, then he isn’t good enough for you.
4. YOU ALWAYS CALL OR TEXT FIRST:
When was the last time he called you first or sent a message? It’s always one excuse or another of why he hasn’t called. If you always call or text first and he always gives the “busy” excuse of why he hasn’t called, he isn’t good enough for you.
5. HE HAS NO LIFE AMBITIONS:
What does he hope to achieve in life? If your boyfriend has no life ambition, he is a waste of time and you shouldn’t be with him. You need a man with a goal and not someone whose goal is to achieve nothing in life.
6. YOU ARE RARELY HAPPY:
If you are always sad and rarely happy, you shouldn’t be with him because he isn’t good enough for you. You deserve a man who would always make you happy and not a man who prefers to see you sad.
7. HE AVOIDS TALKING ABOUT THE FUTURE:
If he avoids talking about the future with you, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future. A man who doesn’t see you in his future doesn’t deserve your love and care. You deserve better than that.
8. HE IS NEVER BOTHERED WHEN YOU SUGGEST A BREAK:
You don’t need a man who is happy to lose you. If he truly cares, he would be bothered you asked for a break. If he isn’t bothered you asked for a break, it’s time to move on sister because he isn’t good enough for you.
9. THERE IS NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT WHEN YOU ARE TOGETHER:
If there is nothing to talk about when you are together with him and the only thing you do when you are with him is have s*x, then he isn’t good enough for you. It’s time you leave this loser and get yourself a better man.
There are lots of men out there that deserve your love and care, why stay with a loser who isn’t good enough for you? Just play Toni Braxton’s hit song – He wasn’t man enough – as you walk out of his sorry life.
