As you strive to be with the woman or man of your life, here are things you should know before you start the journey of YES I DO.
1. LOVE INDUCED WEDDING:
Never marry because of love only. Love is not enough. There are many other ingregients that must be in place for the relationship to succeed. You may love each other but if the other ingredients are missing, the love can be hindered, choked, strangulated. For love alone to induced your reason for that wedding is very dangerous.
I love you may be a fact BUT remains a fact when other ingredients are put in place. You see, “I LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE DOES NOT MEAN I LOVE YOU TO REMAIN THE WAY YOU ARE”. There are many things that can kill your love for one another. For of these could be promiscuity, unforgiveness, incompatibility, either verbal abuse, physical or s*xual, poverty etc. This is why, “NEVER MARRY ALONE FOR LOVE. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH”.
2. SYMPATHY INDUCED WEDDING:
A Sympathy induced wedding is born from hell. Never marry out of sympathy. A friend decided to marry a lady because she needed someone desparetely at age 35. He wanted to marry her just to comfort her. Such a wedding must never hold. Never marry because you pity a person.
3. HORMONES INDUCED WEDDING:
Never marry because of hormones. You need more than body chemistry to marry. Ypu need more than body attraction to say, “YES, I DO”.
4. LIES INDUCED WEDDING:
A lady dated a married man for over 2 years without knowing he was married until she found out he was only in the country for a 3years course & was married abroad. Too late they had married. Was she truly in love? Yes. But was the love enough to make a happy marriage? No. Why? Because she was deceived into the wedding. This is an example of LIES induced wedding. This wedding shouldn’t have held in the first place.
5. STATUS INDUCED WEDDING:
Never marry because the person you want to marry has a great position. You may not end up a divorcee but you will never be happy in that relationship. Your motive from the start is wrong.
6. S*X INDUCED WEDDING:
Marriage is more than s*x. Never marry because you feel like having s*x all the time. S*x induced married couples are finding out too late that getting married for s*x alone is a wrong reason.
7. POVERTY INDUCED WEDDING:
Never marry because you don’t have money. There are too many girls out there who can’t wait to rush into marriage and attach themselves to a guy simply because they want to escape hunger or lack. Poverty induced marriages are dangerous marriages. They always crash and yours may not escape this.
8. IMPATIENCE INDUCED WEDDING:
Getting married because you feel age or time is against you is dangerous. Impatience is inducing that your madness. Never get married because you feel all your friends are getting married. You will be shocked what impatience can make you do.
9. PARENTS INDUCED WEDDING:
How many weddings have come and gone simply because daddy or mummy induced it all? Why must your mummy’s pressure push you beyond your limit? Certain girl was forced into marriage by her mother that she stupidly rushed into a marriage relationship with a ritual killer without knowing. The husband killed her 3 years after. Be careful.
10. REASON INDUCED WEDDING:
Real love has no reason. It is unconditional. When you marry because of too many reasons, these reason will become your decision for divorce one of these days. What did he say was his reasons for loving you? Your fine hair? Your voice? Your shape? Your face? What happens when all these begins to fade? Keep the answer to yourself. Real love does not have a reason.
