Love is a crazy thing. Sometimes, the person you’re totally into is not into you, and to worsen matters, they wouldn’t let you know how they feel, instead, they lead you on for some twisted reason.

The truth about loving or falling for someone who isn’t into you is that in the end, you realise you only wasted your time. Why put yourself through that though? It’s better to be in something meaningful than something worthless.

There are women who are currently being led by the wrong men on without knowing it. So we’re shedding some light on this subject.

Here are eight signs that man is only wasting your time.

HE NEVER GIVES A STRAIGHTFORWARD ANSWER TO YOUR REQUESTS

A person who likes you would tell you what they think about your request immediately you make it. If it’s something they can handle, they’ll tell you. And if it’s too much for them, they would also be real with you. They don’t go running in circles, saying things like, ‘I’ll think about it.’ If a man says that to you, he isn’t that much into you.

HE RARELY WANTS TO SEE YOU

Men are doers. A man who likes you goes out of his way to make things work with you. A man who likes you would do anything to see you and spend some time with you. When there isn’t any real feelings attached, they make up excuses as to why they can’t be with you at given times.

HE NEVER TEXTS YOU FIRST

When you like someone, there’s a lot of excitement that is associated with wanting to be in their space. You want to be with them and chat with them. When the man you like doesn’t text you first, beware.

HIS REPLIES ARE USUALLY VERY BRIEF

Some people naturally like small talk, but the truth is no matter how much you don’t like talking much, you still want to make time for certain people to please them because you fancy them. A man who does not text you comfortably and well, and rather gives you extremely short replies definitely isn’t into you.

HE DOESN’T COME TO YOUR HOUSE, EVEN THOUGH YOU’VE BEEN CLOSE FOR A WHILE

Unless you maybe stay with family or something, and they don’t appreciate male company, a man who claims to like you has no reason to not want to visit your place. If he doesn’t, it’s because you probably don’t excite him.

HE ONLY CALLS OR TEXTS AT CERTAIN TIMES/OCCASIONS

A person who only calls you when they want to ask for help or just to sleep with you does not like you.

P.S: before you go on to take a guy seriously, you should be able to judge his motif for wanting that relationship.

Source:Elcrema