Sometimes the heart can be deceptive, and if you aren’t careful, it would play a fast one on you.

One mistake many women make is giving their heart to a man without knowing the first and last thing about him. You meet a man, fall in love with him, and the next thing you’re in his bed, in his life and have given him your heart.

Being in love is okay, but you ought to know who you’re giving your heart to.

7 important things to know before totally giving him your heart

1. IS HE TRULY IN LOVE WITH YOU?

This is where many women make the first mistake, and this mistake only leads to woes at the end of the day. The fact you are in love with him doesn’t automatically mean he’s in love with you. You ought to know how he feels about you, and if his interest is genuine, or you could end up being hurt.

2. HIS STD STATUS

This is also another mistake many women make. You’re safe and you think by merely looking at him then he’s safe and OK to have sex with? Before you go on to having unprotected sex with him, you ought to be sure of his STD status.

3. IS HE A WOMANIZER?

Loving you sometimes isn’t just enough; can you cope with him loving ten other women at the same time? Definitely not! Be sure to know he isn’t just a womanizer and you aren’t one of his games.

4. HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS FAMILY

You might feel it isn’t important, but this is quite significant. Does he treat his family with love and respect? Does he value them? The answers to these can tell you a bit of the kind of man he is.

5. CRIMINAL RECORDS

A lot of women have dated big time criminals without having the slightest clue. You ought to know his criminal records, his job or mode of making money; you ought to be sure it’s honest before totally giving him your heart. Trust me, you wouldn’t want to get caught up in the heat; it’s way more than what you see in the movie scenes.

6. IS HE TRUSTWORTHY?

Giving your heart totally is quite a big and risky thing to do. Before you give your heart to a man, you ought to know if you can trust him. If he isn’t trustworthy then the relationship would definitely put you at risk, and getting heartbroken is not a situation you would want to be in.

7. HOW DOES HE ACT DURING THE BAD TIMES?

The best way to know a man is when he’s at his worst. Does he get violent? Does he get selfish and think of himself alone? Does he put up unbearable habits that you can’t live with? Knowing a man when he’s at his worst is actually ideal, because if you can live with him when he’s at his worst, you would definitely love him at his best.

Giving your heart without knowing whom you’re giving to is a mistake you should never make; the outcome could be catastrophic.

Source:Elcrema