Ladies take these down…
1. He’s on his phone or online more than usual
If he’s suddenly glued to his phone, watch out. This is a major concern, especially if he’s sneaky about it. This is a major concern, especially if he’s sneaky about it.
If he doesn’t tell you who he’s talking to or what he’s doing and gets mad if you ask him or happen to glance at his phone, this is a red flag.
2. He gets overly defensive when you ask if he’s cheating
If he’s not cheating and you express concern, he’s not going to get really angry right off the bat.
I’m not saying he won’t be hurt at the suggestion, or insulted that you would think that about him, but he won’t immediately fly off the handle and attack you. If he does, he definitely doth protest too much.
3. He suddenly needs a lot of privacy
Everybody needs a certain amount of privacy, and people can be different about how much of it they need. Some people are fine with sharing their email passwords or leaving their Facebook pages open, others are not. The point is, he won’t be one way and then suddenly change without good reason.
4. Avoids having sex with you … or wants it all the time
Sex is a form of intimacy, so if he’s avoiding sex with you it could tie into the previous point.
5. Hides his finances
While he used to leave his credit card statements or his phone bills out in the open, he’s suddenly very stealthy with all statements and receipts.
If he’s spending money on someone new, he won’t want you to notice and question it.
