Bedroom parties have become quite the norm in Zimbabwe these days, with many ladies paying up to be tutored on how to please their men in bed and outside of it.
This concept is said to have been taken from the traditional Chinamwali practice, which originated from Malawi.
Although the original Chinamwali concept doesn’t just involve bedroom gymnastics, it was seen more as a rite of passage once the girl child hit puberty.
She was to be taken to the elderly woman of the village known as Anankungwi and confined for 7 days, where she would be counseled and prepared for adulthood as a female.
The topics covered from menstrual hygiene, respect and good manners, abstinence from premarital sex, respect of parents’ bedroom, household chores and how to conduct themselves with their husbands once they get married.
At the end of the initiation, the girl’s hair would be shaved, including pubic hair
However it is the sexual part of the Chinamwali rite, which has received most of the spotlight.
During the modern day training process, girls are taught all sorts of ways to please their husbands in bed, from having flexible limps and waists which can be manipulated in odd angles, keeping the body temperature warm so the man doesn’t feel like he’s sleeping with a reptile and sex after care.
Nowadays most bedroom parties cut to the chase and teach women of all legal ages and different marital statuses to spice up their bedroom lives.
The parties are usually hosted by self appointed aunts or self proclaimed bedroom experts in general, who teach women all sorts of bedroom skills and conduct towards their husband in hopes to keep their marriages intact.
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