It’s OK – you don’t actually have to BE a bad girl. If you did, 95% of the women reading this article could just stop right here and give up…
In fact, all you have to do is embody some of these traits if you want him to think of you as the “bad girl” he secretly wants and doesn’t even know why.
That’s because guys don’t REALLY want a bad girl – they don’t want a girl that’s just as likely to go out with them as she is cheat on them.
They want a good girl who has some “bad girl blood” in her – which is exactly what I’m about to tell you how to pull off.
1. Forthright
There’s nothing men hate more than trying to play mind games while figuring out what’s wrong.
Or trying to figure out what they said to offend a woman while she gives him the silent treatment and sarcastic responses.
Ladies, men want simple. They want you to tell them when they’ve messed up, so they can get better. And they don’t want to have to jump through hoops for it.
If you’re blunt with him, it pays off big in the long term.
2. Independent
Guys don’t want to have to shoulder the entire burden of a relationship themselves. Contrary to what some people think, men want an independent woman that isn’t afraid to get things done on their own.
Guys value women who can take care of themselves and don’t need a lot of help.
A man will settle down with the woman who doesn’t need him in her life, but chooses to have him anyway.
3. Confident
We’ve talked a lot about how confidence is key for your attractiveness – for a reason.
Men love women who are confident and happy with themselves… women who know what they want and are confident that they deserve it.
If you want a guy who treats you right, you should start by treating yourself right and go from there.
4. Naughty
Let’s face it – men love sex. Always have, always will.
That’s why when guys think of the “bad girl” type they’re attracted to – they’re thinking about raunchiness in the bedroom.
Guys want to stick with a woman who they know is going to bring the heat in the bedroom over the course of the relationship, without letting things get stale.
5. Adventurous
One of the key reasons that men are terrified of commitment and settling down is because they don’t want to be locked into the same routine, day after day, doing the exact same thing over and over.
They want excitement! Passion! Adventure!
That’s where this bad girl trait comes in. A guy who’s afraid of settling down might not be so anxious about settling down with a woman who he knows is adventurous, who will keep him on his toes and keep things fresh.
When a guy picks a girl that’s not afraid to change things up, he’s more confident that things won’t get stuck in the same routine and get stale. That’s why they’re attracted to bad girls who are adventurous.
6. Seductive
Sure, guys like to take the lead and initiate in the bedroom, but they don’t like to ALL the time.
Lots of guys like it when a woman steps up and initiates sex, or even better, plots a sexy ambush before pouncing.
If he’s the one always doing the work, it’s going to get boring for him. That’s why men love a bad girl that wants sex as much as they do.
7. Passionate
What do you prefer – a chaste kiss on the lips or a full on passionate lip lock with plenty of tongue?
If you’re like most guys, you prefer the latter. Guys love feeling desired almost as much as they love actually making love.
So if you can make him feel like you’re lusting after him, you’ll put a stamp in his mind that you’re the woman he wants to be with in the long term.
Now that you know the lusty bad girl things he’s looking for, are you sure you can use them to grab his attention for good? Because there are 2 big turning points every woman experiences in her relationships with men and they determine if you end up in a happy relationship or if it all ends in heartbreak. So pay attention because the next step to take is vitally important. At some point he’s going to ask himself is this the woman I should commit myself to for the long term… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material (the type of woman he commits himself to) or if he sees you as just a fling?
