Zambian businesswoman and farmer Maria Zaloumis, popularly known as The Zed Farmer, has expressed her disillusionment with Zambian men, calling them narcissists, including her ex-husband, Pastor Misheck Mwewa.
During an appearance on Hot FM’s Red Hot Breakfast Show this morning, Zaloumis candidly shared her frustrations, particularly highlighting her past relationship. She asserted that she often took on the role of the “man of the house” during their time together.
“I am done with Zambian men. Most of them are narcissists,” she declared, making it clear that her experiences had left her disappointed.
Addressing her ex-husband directly, Zaloumis did not mince her words, accusing Pastor Mwewa of never genuinely loving her and being emotionally entangled with his late wife.
“Pastor, if you’re listening, I know you never loved me. He wasn’t over his wife. I used to compete with a dead woman,” she revealed.
Zaloumis further disclosed that throughout their relationship, she only received K4,500 from Mwewa, implying that she carried the financial responsibilities on her own.
“I was the man in the house,” she stated, expressing dissatisfaction with the perceived lack of support from her former spouse.
The businesswoman’s candid remarks have sparked a social media debate, with many weighing in on the complexities of relationships and financial dynamics.