When we start a relationship with someone we love, we always hope to be happy with our new partner. There are certain things happy couples don’t do and if you desire to be happy in your relationship, you need to avoid these things in your relationship.

Below are 6 things happy couples don’t do

1. LOOK FOR WHO TO BLAME

When things go wrong in your relationship, are you quick to blame your partner? When things go wrong, happy couples take personal responsibility for the role they each played. Happy couples understand that time spent pointing fingers doesn’t help anyone heal.

2. HAPPY COUPLES DON’T GIVE UP EASILY

Happy couples understand that their relationship would go through tough times sometimes but they never give up on their relationship. Happy couples learn to stand strong and hold on.

3. HAPPY COUPLES DON’T FIGHT DIRTY

Most couples can’t resist the temptation of bringing back old stuffs, being mean and hurting feelings during arguments and this is really wrong. Happy couples understand that fighting dirty helps no one.

4. HAPPY COUPLES DON’T SHARE ALL ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS

Happy couples understand that involving a third-party when they have an issue with their partner isn’t the best way to solve the problem. When you tell your family or friends the mistakes your partner has made, you spoil your partner’s reputation among your family or friends and they would always look at your partner that way. Happy couples solve their issues themselves.

5. HAPPY COUPLES DON’T LIE

Happy couples understand that a lie no matter how little can destroy trust. Happy couples understand that lies can lead to more lies and that can spin out of control.

6. HAPPY COUPLES DON’T NEGLECT SELF-IMPROVEMENT

Happy couples understand that focusing on pleasing their partner alone without focusing on improving themselves too would destroy the relationship. Happy couples understand that while it’s important to make your partner happy, they also need to make themselves happy too.