A lady from Nigeria has gotten a lot of attention on Twitter because she said something controversial that has caused a heated debate on the microblogging site.

The woman who uses the handle @Jojonitq took to her page to insinuate that one is less of a man if he allows his woman to pay for her own bills.

“But let’s be realistic as a man don’t you feel a certain level o shame/uselessness when a woman pays her own bills while you are around?” She tweeted.

See her tweet below: