Mama J, a Nigerian woman who appears to be a relationship coach, has sparked significant discussion online by criticizing wives who respond to their cheating husbands with infidelity of their own.

She argued that such wives are also being unfaithful and lack the wisdom needed to uphold their families.

Mama J emphasized that a good wife should act as a guiding figure, helping her husband change his ways rather than engaging in similar wrongdoing.

She also highlighted the crucial role wives play in shaping their husbands’ behavior.

In her words, “You don’t have wisdom. You married that man to be his helper. Even if he is a cheater, you need to help him in that area. You are responsible for his upbringing too. Don’t you know you are his mother?”

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